After a
stroke, keep in mind that you are the most important
person in your own recovery. You need to have a major say in the decisions
about your care. This may be hard for you, and you may sometimes feel like
sitting back and letting others take charge.
- Make sure others understand that you want to be
involved in the decisions about your care.
- State your wishes and
opinions on matters that affect you. Talk with your health professional about
your concerns. Ask questions.
- If you need extra time to think or
you have trouble talking, try not to let others make decisions for you without
hearing what you have to say.
- If you have a speech problem, it may
be hard to get others to understand your wishes. Ask someone to help you
express your ideas and needs. Or write them down if you can.
- If
you feel that anyone is "talking down" to you or speaking about you as if you
were not present, express your concern.
Know and follow your rehabilitation plan. Most people find that
rehabilitation is hard work and a slow process. Tasks and activities that were
easy for you before the stroke often seem more difficult after the
stroke.
- It is normal to feel tired and discouraged at
times.
- It is important to notice your progress and take pride in
each step.
Feeling sad about having a stroke and the resulting disabilities is
normal. However, if you get depressed, it can interfere with your recovery. At
the first sign that you are feeling depressed, talk with your family and your
health professional. Early treatment for depression can prevent a delay in
recovery.
Sometimes a stroke affects how a person sees himself or herself. The
following tips may help you maintain your image of yourself as a whole
person.
- Keep your body clean. Feeling clean will help you
feel more attractive.
- Use an electric razor. If you have to shave
with one hand, an electric razor may make it easier.
- Wear your
regular clothes instead of pajamas. Dressing will help you feel like yourself
and not like a "sick" person.
- Wear makeup or jewelry if you wore
them before the stroke.